Guest post from therapist Sarah Bradshaw. I had a parent call me monthly about her student. She would call anytime he was close to failing and would ask how can we prevent him from failing. She also told me that she emails his teacher almost weekly, and couldn’t understand why she hadn’t heard anything back. I listened empathetically to her talk then asked, "What is the harm in failing?" I think that was the first time she didn’t have anything to say because she never thought about failing as an option. It's painful to see your kids struggle. Rescuing your kids is a completely normal impulse, but there are times when it might be unhelpful to your kids. Failure can teach your kid resilence Grades are an important part of school. How else do teachers measure a student’s progress? But, grades are not the only point of going of going to school. School is a good time for your child ...
I am a psychotherapist in Houston, TX. This blog is a chronicle of the journey undertaken and lessons learned by my clients to find their joy. I hope you will walk this journey with me and find ways that you too can be happier and healthier -- starting today!